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It’s the 👅 for me. Clit Sucker Sex Toy
It’s no secret that—for folks with vulvas—clit-sucking vibrators are le bomb dot com. Clitoral suction toys work to simulate oral sex by surrounding the clitoris with suction and air, and hot damn, do they do their job well. However! There’s one thing your fave clit suction vibe may not be able to provide, and that’s tongue action. Enter: the tongue vibrator. While the name might make you picture a vibrator for your tongue (and those do actually exist, btw), a tongue vibe is another type of oral sex toy just waitin’ to rock your world.
Tongue vibrators come in lots of different shapes and sizes. Some look like your classic suction toy with a lil tongue nubbin attached. Others feature tapered ends that imitate the flickering tip of a tongue. There are even those that don’t feature any tongue-like bits but instead use rotating nodes that feel just like the real thing. If you haven’t tried ’em before, then you may be a wee bit skeptical. But seeing as more than 75 percent of vagina owners actually need more than just penetration to orgasm, these A+ clit stimulators are def worth your coin.
Ahead, the best tongue vibrators you can buy right now, including the internet-famous Ora 3 and the tongue-shaped toy from Smile Makers that’s got everyone in a tizzy.
If you've always wanted a French lover well-versed in the art of cunnilingus, then this unique toy deserves a spot in your drawer. Made with silky smooth silicone, the vibrating tongue on the French Lover is ideal for teasing all your body's erogenous zones. Although it's battery-operated, you’ll love that it's waterproof, whisper-quiet, and equipped with six different functions.
THE REVIEW: "Well, this one surprised me," one review reads. "The touch is definitely different but it feels so good, especially if you add some lubricant. The high speed really gets you over the edge while the lower are great for building intensity. It's a slow burn, but oh so explosive. If you like oral, this is pretty much better."
Chances are you've seen this rose-shaped vibe making the rounds on TikTok, and yes, it def lives up to the hype. Even doubters have been won over by the tiny but powerful vibe, which is totally waterproof, rechargeable, and equipped with nine different licking and vibration modes.
THE REVIEW: According to one review, "I was skeptical but I needed to see just what all the hype was about and, let me tell you, I am on cloud 9. This was the best investment ever. This little bad boy is amazing. It has different modes but, baby, I couldn’t get past the first one. If you’re looking for something small that packs a lot of power, but not even just power—it feels as if you are receiving the best oral sex you’ve ever had in your life!"
It licks! It sucks! It does it all! Made with body-safe silicone, this rechargeable toy is designed with a big mouth to cup your entire vulva, as well as a robust vibrating tongue for clit stim. You'll have a blast experimenting with the nine vibe modes and three suction functions—and all for a mere $36, too!
THE REVIEW: "This product by far is my number one toy to use," raves one reviewer. "The suction is just right. The tongue actions are amazing. There are many different options to choose from and I love them all. I don’t think I’ll be able to find a toy that can replace this one!"
Another great dual-action toy: this sleek, silicone cutie from PHANXY. Complete with a dildo attachment for internal stim, this vibe features two powerful (but surprisingly quiet) motors, a waggling tongue, and a waterproof design. Plus, it's got nine vibe modes and nine licking modes that you can mix and match for endless possibilities. And just look at that price!!
THE REVIEW: As one review reads, "I am more than impressed with the quality, power, and multiple speeds. Not to mention the fact that it is a perfect size. It is rechargeable and keeps its charge for more than enough time to get the job done. It's very smooth and silky feeling as well. What I really like about it is how long the tongue part is. I highly recommend this product."
Looking for a slightly less pricey version of the JimmyJane Apex? This bestseller from Pipedream delivers all the same fun for half the price and—just like the Apex—it's rechargeable and equipped with tons of different vibe and suction modes.
THE REVIEW: According to one buyer, "This toy does quite a lot, especially for what you're paying! It's a vibrator that has decent vibrating strength. For me, it didn't knock my socks off, but that's okay. Because that tongue action is the f*cking thing!!! I could have this baby eat me all day and it has my eyes rolling. And you can use the tongue and suction together!!!"
Pls turn your attention to this next-level contraption from LELO, which uses rotating "pleasure nodes" and 12 different patterns to mimic a controlled, tongue-like feeling. Yes, it’s pricey, but it's beloved for a reason—plus, it’ll look so ~fancy~ on your nightstand. Oh, and did I mention it's waterproof?
THE REVIEW: "The Ora 3 is just as wonderful as advertised and reviewed," writes one tester. "Generally speaking, oral is more difficult for me—too much in my own mind, worried about taking too long...the Ora 3 eliminates those pesky thoughts (as an indefatigable toy and not a human). Feels wonderful, looks sleek, and clean up is easy. Highly recommend!"
This palm-sized beaut has a cupped, widespread tip embedded in rows of silky silicone ribs that's able to quicker, flicker, and pulse in 12 possible rhythms. You'll love how easy this bb is to hold, as well as the fact that it's long-lasting, rechargeable, and waterproof.
THE REVIEW: "Oh my—this toy had me going in less than a minute," notes one customer. "It's perfect and my legs were shaking and still felt the throbbing on me after I was done. Highly recommend! You'll never need any other toy ever again. So worth it!"
CalExotics has legit dozens of top-rated tongue vibes, but one of the best is definitely this flicking tongue toy. It's rechargeable, splashproof, v discreet, and offers 10 different modes to help ya get your rocks off with pinpoint precision—plus, it's so compact that you can easily take it on the road.
THE REVIEW: "I am obsessed with this little thing," one reviewer notes. "It packs so much power and definitely gets the job done. My friend had the exact one and I had to get it. It's small, portable, can fit in a small purse, and no batteries! Keep in next to my bed at all times. Highly recommend!"
Perfect for use on both your nipples and clit, this internet-famous all-in-one pump toy from JimmyJane heightens sensitivity through the combination of suction and stimulation from its soft silicone tongue. It's got four powerful motors, three suction patterns, seven tongue-motion patterns, and a whopping 10 vibration patterns that you'll have SO much fun exploring.
THE REVIEW: "This toy is a game changer," reads one review. "I have never experienced anything that felt so real! If you are a fan of oral, this toy is worth every penny! Just get it lined up, hit the buttons, and lay back for an earth-shattering orgasm."
This two-in-one clitoral licking vibrator by Tracy's Dog has seven licking modes, 10 pulsing patterns, and a bendy internal attachment that you can position however you’d like. Plus, it’s remote-control operated, so you can let your partner take the reins.
THE REVIEW: As one reviewer writes, "Wow! Everyone has to try this. Comparable to my amazing partner's tongue, and that's saying something."
Not looking to spend more than $35 on a tongue vibe? Then this bad boy is for you. With the storage cap on, it looks like an adorable lil Easter egg, and you simply gotta open 'er up to experience seven vibration functions from its fluttering tongue nubbin. It's rechargeable, splashproof, and amazingly effective for the price.
THE REVIEW: According to one buyer, "This tiny egg is so phenomenal. I've used it a handful of times and it literally makes me climax in under 4 minutes every time! I have a hard time getting off during sex, and I cannot wait to try this out with him. I have much faith that it will pull through for me (finally!). I highly recommend the Aria Flutter Tongue!!"
In addition to being pretty, this luxe clitoral massager features a soft silicone tip that quickly waggles up and down like a tongue—and by quickly, I mean up-to-75-swings-per-second quick. It’s compact, water-resistant, rechargeable, packed with several different modes and functions, and even embellished with a genuine Swarovski crystal, which is so perfectly #extra.
THE REVIEW: "I like a more intense feeling with my vibrators, and let me tell you this toy delivers," raves one customer. "It takes a bit to work out the best place to position it, but once you find the sweet spot, you're golden. If you're a fan of pulsation, this toy is for you."
This sweet, curvy toy comes packed with 10 rhythms of vibration, a flickering silicone tongue, and a silky-soft contoured clitoral cup that's big enough to fit any sort of anatomy. And yes, it’s waterproof and rechargeable, so it really checks all the boxes.
THE REVIEW: "Amazing toy! Totally worth the $," one tester writes. "It feels just like someone is flicking your clit and it will do it for as long as you want! The sensations on your clit are completely different from the various suction and vibrator toys out there. Every female should add this toy to their drawer."
Flutter lovers, WYA? The Volta's split-tipped design offers a wide range of sensations, ranging from fluttery tapping to more powerful thumps, and it's great for use on both clits and nips. Plus, it's packed with 12 different functions and an easy-to-grip handle—and ofc, it's waterproof and rechargeable.
THE REVIEW: As one customer notes, "This vibrator solves my issue with most vibrators, which is that the vibration is too strong/concentrated to be able to use for long. This thing distributes the vibrations and can be used in several different ways without overstimulating. If you're looking for a good quality external vibe, I highly recommend the Volta."
This suction vibe may look simple, but don’t be fooled—it really delivers. Using pressure wave technology, the Aer mimics the flutter of a tongue and the suction of a mouth for a truly knee-buckling experience. It offers five pulsing patterns and five suction intensities so you can find the perfect combo—and yes, it’s waterproof as well.
THE REVIEW: "After a lot of research I decided to give the Aer a try and I am so glad I did. It is AMAZING," one review reads. "The orgasms it gives me are OUT OF THIS WORLD. I did not even know I could squirt until I bought this...I cannot believe that I went this long without a toy. Life changed forever."
Similar to the Volta, the Power Flower boasts a split tip and flexible shaft that you can use internally, externally, and even under water. While it's battery-operated, it's still super powerful, and the easy grip handle and 12 different functions make it well worth the hassle.
THE REVIEW: "This is a wonderfully gender-neutral toy that surprised me with its great design," notes one tester. "Easy to hold, easy to clean (even between those petals, they're quite flexible), and easy to recharge. The vibrations are pleasantly rumbly and the controls are really simple. Despite its alien look, it's really one of the most accessible toys I've come across in a long time."
Similar to the Inspire Flickering Intimate Arouser, this handheld toy features an open-faced nozzle with a tiny tongue tab, which delivers suuuuper quick flutters that feel similar to the sensation of an air pulsation toy. It may not feel exactly like oral sex, but if you're into flicker-style toys, then this bb is calling your name.
THE REVIEW: "The Dreamy is my favorite flicker-style tongue toy," writes one person. "It's pricier, but it’s such a well-made toy. If you're not sure you'll enjoy flicker toys, the Dreamy is the ideal model to try, because its stimulation is more comfortable than the others."
Corinne Sullivan is an Editor at Cosmopolitan, where she covers a variety of beats, including lifestyle, entertainment, relationships, shopping, and more. She can tell you everything you need to know about the love lives of A-listers, the coziest bedsheets, and the sex toys actually worth your $$$. She is also the author of the 2018 novel Indecent. Follow her on Instagram for cute pics of her pup and bébé.
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